[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/deti-jako-kamaradi-rodicu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/deti-jako-kamaradi-rodicu\/","headline":"D\u011bti jako kamar\u00e1di rodi\u010d\u016f?","name":"D\u011bti jako kamar\u00e1di rodi\u010d\u016f?","description":"Mnoz\u00ed z\u00a0v\u00e1s mo\u017en\u00e1 souhlasn\u011b pokyvuj\u00ed hlavou s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee by rodi\u010de m\u011bli m\u00edt kamar\u00e1dsk\u00fd vztah ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Je to tak spr\u00e1vn\u011b? Rodi\u010de by m\u011bli b\u00fdt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm autoritou pro sv\u00e9 d\u011bti. M\u011bli by jim j\u00edt p\u0159\u00edkladem. Optim\u00e1ln\u00ed je, kdy\u017e vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti oba rodi\u010de. Bohu\u017eel v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed usp\u011bchan\u00e9 dob\u011b mnohdy otcov\u00e9 pracuj\u00ed","datePublished":"2019-05-06","dateModified":"2019-05-06","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c47baa405891a9bbddd7acd919a692d2b0c5a8f5f5ac49161535688cab5c72a8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/c47baa405891a9bbddd7acd919a692d2b0c5a8f5f5ac49161535688cab5c72a8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"bicorn.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a344731_w2076_t1558552912.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a344731_w2076_t1558552912.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/deti-jako-kamaradi-rodicu\/","wordCount":475,"articleBody":"Mnoz\u00ed z\u00a0v\u00e1s mo\u017en\u00e1 souhlasn\u011b pokyvuj\u00ed hlavou s\u00a0t\u00edm, \u017ee by rodi\u010de m\u011bli m\u00edt kamar\u00e1dsk\u00fd vztah ke sv\u00fdm d\u011btem. Je to tak spr\u00e1vn\u011b? Rodi\u010de by m\u011bli b\u00fdt p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm autoritou pro sv\u00e9 d\u011bti. M\u011bli by jim j\u00edt p\u0159\u00edkladem. Optim\u00e1ln\u00ed je, kdy\u017e vychov\u00e1vaj\u00ed sv\u00e9 d\u011bti oba rodi\u010de. Bohu\u017eel v\u00a0dne\u0161n\u00ed usp\u011bchan\u00e9 dob\u011b mnohdy otcov\u00e9 pracuj\u00ed mimo domov, jsou na \u010dast\u00fdch slu\u017eebn\u00edch cest\u00e1ch a b\u0159\u00edm\u011b v\u00fdchovy z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 na matce, kter\u00e1 ale nezvl\u00e1d\u00e1 v\u00fdchovu za oba rodi\u010de. Ani nem\u016f\u017ee. Otec je otec, matka je matka. Ka\u017ed\u00fd m\u00e1 sv\u016fj styl, kter\u00fd vych\u00e1z\u00ed z\u00a0d\u00e1vn\u00fdch \u010das\u016f. Otec je t\u00edm, ke kter\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011b vzhl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a obdivuje, matka zahrnuje l\u00e1skou, p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed a jemnost\u00ed du\u0161e.\tD\u011bti a rodi\u010de nemohou b\u00fdt kamar\u00e1dy, jeliko\u017e se to vylu\u010duje. Kamar\u00e1dy m\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b mezi sv\u00fdmi vrstevn\u00edky, se kter\u00fdmi si hraje, zlob\u00ed, zkou\u0161\u00ed sv\u00e9 mo\u017enosti, jak se prosadit. S\u00a0rodi\u010di si tak\u00e9 m\u016f\u017ee hr\u00e1t, zlobit i zkou\u0161et sv\u00e9 mo\u017enosti, jak se prosadit. Ale rodi\u010d je ve zcela jin\u00e9m postaven\u00ed, ne\u017e kamar\u00e1d sv\u00e9ho syna \u010di dcery. Rodi\u010d vymezuje sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti hranice. D\u00edt\u011b mus\u00ed zcela jasn\u011b v\u011bd\u011bt, co si m\u016f\u017ee a co si nesm\u00ed dovolit. Rodi\u010de mus\u00ed b\u00fdt ve sv\u00fdch n\u00e1zorech zajedno, alespo\u0148 p\u0159ed d\u00edt\u011btem. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b si rodi\u010de mohou sv\u00e9 n\u00e1zory vy\u0159\u00edkat, ale jen mezi sebou, nesm\u00ed do sv\u00fdch hovor\u016f \u201ezatahovat\u201c d\u00edt\u011b. D\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 b\u00fdt svobodn\u00e9, voln\u00e9, nezat\u00ed\u017een\u00e9 spory rodi\u010d\u016f.\t\tPokud rodi\u010d ji\u017e n\u011bco rozhodne, nem\u011bl by za hodinu na sv\u00e9 rozhodnut\u00ed zapomenout a m\u00e1vnout nad sv\u00fdm z\u00e1kazem rukou a onen z\u00e1kaz poru\u0161it. Mal\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je pak zmaten\u00e9. A pak pr\u00e1v\u011b \u201ezlob\u00ed\u201c. Jen\u017ee to zloben\u00ed je pr\u00e1v\u011b pot\u00e1cen\u00ed se d\u00edt\u011bte mezi z\u00e1kazy a op\u011btn\u00fdmi povolen\u00edmi. Ono nev\u00ed, co si m\u016f\u017ee dovolit, a proto \u201ezlob\u00ed\u201c. Pravda je takov\u00e1, \u017ee d\u00edt\u011b nev\u00ed a nerozum\u00ed nastal\u00e9 situaci a zkou\u0161\u00ed rodi\u010de, zda p\u0159\u00ed\u0161t\u011b znovu nepovol\u00ed. Pakli\u017ee d\u00edt\u011b je vytrval\u00e9 a v\u011b\u0159te, \u017ee b\u00fdv\u00e1, mnoz\u00ed rodi\u010de tzv. vym\u011bknou a d\u00edt\u011bti povol\u00ed to, co mu p\u0159edt\u00edm zak\u00e1zali. Bohu\u017eel si neuv\u011bdomuj\u00ed, \u017ee zde je za\u010d\u00e1tek konce.\tRodi\u010de, a\u010dkoliv je to leckdy t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9, vytrvejte a dop\u0159ejte sv\u00e9mu d\u00edt\u011bti luxus pohybovat v\u00a0prost\u0159ed\u00ed pln\u00e9m pochopen\u00ed, l\u00e1sky a jasn\u011b stanoven\u00fdmi pravidly chov\u00e1n\u00ed.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        3.7\/5 - (6 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"D\u011bti jako kamar\u00e1di rodi\u010d\u016f?","item":"https:\/\/www.bicorn.cz\/deti-jako-kamaradi-rodicu\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]